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Scapegoating

By Br. McLean Bennett, OFM Cap.

There is something of a cottage industry on social media these days: The posting to the internet of videos of people doing bad or stupid things … and then getting their just deserts.

If I scroll through YouTube, I almost inevitably end up coming across a video titled something like: “Idiot driver crashes into semi.” What’s caught on camera is a video of someone driving too fast or too recklessly, and then slamming into a big truck. Viewers are encouraged to say things like: “Well, he had that coming!”

Or a person might be filmed in the midst of a tense conflict with someone else — sometimes with the person holding the camera — and we’re invited to watch their spectacular, public meltdown. “It’s OK,” we’re supposed to think. “They deserve to be called out and ridiculed!”

It’s easy to turn people into a meme, ridicule their actions and justify our pleasure in our doing so by insisting that it’s all simply a carriage of popular justice.

This isn’t a new phenomenon.

As a friend of mine pointed out to me a few years ago, what goes on in today’s world of social media is simply a modern variation of what we used to call “scapegoating.” We turn our enemies into objects of derision — and tell ourselves that we stand on the side of moral virtue.

Scholars would perhaps point out that this is what’s going on in today’s first reading, which is all about the Assyrians — or the “scoundrels,” as the prophet Nahum calls them.

The Assyrians were hated by just about everyone — and they might have deserved it. They were famously brutal, and had made a lot of enemies, including the Israelites of Nahum’s time.

About a century before he wrote, Assyria had conquered much of Israel, pressing many of Abraham’s descendants into a violent exile.

But by the time of today’s first reading, the Assyrians had fallen to the Babylonians — the Mediterranean world’s newest big empire.

Nahum’s whole purpose in writing was to point out that the Assyrians had finally eaten their humble pie, and that the whole world was taking note.

Today’s first reading seems to take a gleeful bit of pleasure in the Assyrians’ downfall.

There’s a different tone in today’s gospel, in which Jesus prescribes a different way of approaching our relationship to the world — even a world that wanted to crucify him.

“Whoever wishes to come after me must deny himself, take up his cross, and follow me.

“For whoever wishes to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will find it.”

There is nothing here about breaking one’s enemies. There is nothing here about humiliating one’s opponent — even if we’re sure our opponent deserves to be humiliated.

To be like Jesus, to follow him and be his disciple, is to carry a cross. And our cross, like Jesus’, is a cross that brings healing not only for us, but also for our enemies.

Praying for those we don’t like might not come naturally or by instinct. It’s easier to lash out and to scapegoat.

At Mass, we pray at the altar that in consuming Jesus’ body and blood, we ourselves might be made an eternal offering to God.

As we walk out of this chapel, the ground beneath our feet might well be thought of as the altar on which we make this offering — the place where we carry our own cross.

We might ask: For whom are we carrying that cross today?

Transitus of Saint Francis

Please, join the Capuchins and the whole Franciscan family as we commemorate the Transitus – the passing into eternal life – of Saint Francis of Assisi. The service will begin at 7 PM, followed by some refreshments.

Tonight is when all the Franciscans around the globe and all who cherish the memory of St. Francis gather to remember and tell stories.

We have a simple story to tell: the story of Francis’ Transitus – or passage – from this life to eternal life.

And we tell the story in the simple and faith-filled words of Thomas of Celano, one of the early biographers of Francis.

We tell this story to remember our heritage, renew our Christian faith, and evoke our Christian hope, after the example of our Seraphic Saint. Francis of Assisi

Peace and all Good,

The Capuchin Friars & Staff

Capuchin Retreat Center

Midweek Mixed Retreat: “In the Footsteps of St. Francis of Assisi”

Join us midweek for a retreat open to all at Capuchin Retreat.

Our theme for the 2023-24 season is: “In the footsteps of St. Francis of Assisi.” By delving into our Franciscan tradition, we will unravel the life of St. Francis and explore key events in his conversion and ministry. Through his life, the weekend retreat will be an opportunity to know St. Francis more deeply and to recognize those opportunities of grace in your own life…deepening your awareness of God’s loving presence and embracing the Gospel with evermore joy.

The total cost of the retreat is $250

Here’s the schedule for the weekend:

Friday

6:30 pm Registration

7:30 Welcome/Orientation in the Dining Room

8:30 Opening Prayer & Conference #1 – St. Francis Kisses the Leper

Saturday

8:00 am Mass in Chapel

8:45 Breakfast

10:00 Conference #2 – San Damiano Cross speaks to St. Francis of Assisi

11:15 Conference #3 – St. Francis encounters Christ in the Christmas Crib

12:30 pm Dinner

2:30 Rosary in the Chapel (led by Volunteer)

3:00 Conference #4 – St. Francis meets the Sultan

4:00 Sacrament of Reconciliation in the offices

5:30 Supper

7:00 Healing Service in Chapel & Eucharistic Adoration

Sunday

8:00 am Breakfast

9:00 Morning Prayer in Chapel

9:30 Conference #5 – St. Francis & the Canticle of Creatures

11:00 Sunday Mass

12:00 noon Dinner and farewell

Morning of Reflection: Humility and God’s Will – A Franciscan View

Join us for a Morning of Reflection with Br. David Hirt, OFM Cap. who will be presenting the topic: “Humility and God’s Will: A Franciscan View.”
The morning will focus on a few key moments in the life of St. Francis that illuminate Franciscan discernment. Br. David will take retreatants through a reflection on St. Francis’s spirit of minority in relation to sacred scripture, spiritual guidance, community, and freedom and how this ties into a Franciscan sense of vocation or calling. The sessions will have a strong Lenten theme during discussion on periods in Francis’ life.
Agenda:
  • Optional 8:00 a.m. Mass in the Chapel
  • Registration at 9:00 a.m.
  • Program starts at 9:15 a.m.
  • Lunch served at Noon
A $40 dollar suggested donation includes coffee, tea and snacks.
Clicking below to register online with Eventbrite or by calling: (248) 651-4826

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